Oh wow, thank you SO MUCH for collecting these links. I have been away from the internet for a bit and am only now catching up on how this fail has been playing out, and wow. That misapplication of Jay Smooth is heinous! Also, I really like your discussion of what a 'safe space' is and does, that solidifies a lot of things for me, both in my experience and in how I've gotten uncomfortable with how the term has been applied in fandom.

Thank you so much for doing so much of the heavy lifting on this.

I'm doing a link roundup and will be linking to this post if that's okay (if not, I will edit my post). Also, you seem really awesome in general and I'd like to subscribe if that's okay?